Have you ever gone out of your way to help someone and found out how ungrateful they are?
We all have. But in the end whatever we do we do it because we want to because it needs to be done because it's the right thing to do. What others do with it is their concern. The good acts we do make us a better person in any instance. That being said, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Yes I have count on my toes and my fingers and I'll continue to give because what goes around comes around and somebody out there really needs help and I'm not going to fail them because of the other so and so's
When I help someone it is for me not so much for them . Expectations are just a resentment in the making. Help because you can or want to not for approval or appreciation.