Be strong but not rude

Be strong but not rude. Be kind but not bold but not a bully. be humble but not shy.Be proud but not arrogant. 

Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.
Lao Tzu

Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.
Mark Twain

Self-praise is for losers. Be a winner. Stand for something. Always have class, and be humble.
John Madden

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
Mahatma Gandhi