Your greatest test is when you are able to bless someone else while you are going through your own storm. - Regina Malabago.
It's part of the healing process. Knowing that you helped others avoiding such pain will somehow lessen the pain you're currently experiencing yourself.
This is a storm that covers many people and many miles, leaving me in deeply uncomfortable and unsafe situation. It is there storm and mental state that scares me. I am one, they are many. Feels so good inside to also be able to give your time for other..
No pain no gain!!! At last we can see things with new eyes and hearts to finally learn you are not alone and never have been we just go through tough times in ourlives at different times. Keep our hearts open to take the time to comfort each other when you have the oppurtunity to show the compassion you have learned don't waste what you have learned ever.
I know how this feels, maybe we are too self centered to think about someone else.