If you can't seem to do any of that, just be grateful and all that will come! Blessings and Thank you! Be at peace with yourself and others, forgive yourself and others, release all negativity thoughts, pains and harm you did to others, feel the love, find the peace and be positive everyday! god bless you's everyday! Do as you would done by its the way to happiness! it seems like someone took my way of thinking , I have preached this million times before and try to apply every day .
Nowadays, if you forget yourself and think of others, you may finally find your self on the wrong track. We cannot accept it as a general truth. It depends.