People were created to be loved, things were created to be used

.... The reason why the world is in chaos is because things are being loved, and people are being used.

To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic.
- Alphonse de Lamartine

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” 
- Elisabeth

“Loving is a feeling that brings both joy and pain to my heart. Joy from being with you, being filled with an emotion so deep and tender that no other feeling can compare. Pain from knowing that I'm so in love, that I'm more vulnerable than I've ever”

There's no future in loving people who are hurt. If you heal them, they don't need you anymore. If you don't heal them, they destroy you.