We are not perfect and we will make mistakes. We need to seek forgiveness when we do wrong and do our best to be as good as we can be. The problem is people make conflicts, do not resolve, and then hold a grudge. This can cause loss of relations between families, friends, and communities. Forgive yourself, forgive others, and seek forgiveness with the Almighty. Be merciful, be kind, and if you did wrong, then change your ways for the better. This is the time to do it. ( This would make life so easy so hardly a few people live by these basic principles- people somehow prefer a challenging or depressing life/routine instead.)
The best life lessons are often learnt when you’re broken badly. Difficulties & adversities viciously force all their might on us & cause us to fall apart, but they are necessary elements of individual growth & reveal our true potential.We have got to endure & overcome them & move forward.Never lose hope. Storms make people stronger & never last. If Almighty Lord meant the day to be perfect, He wouldn’t have invented tomorrow. Believe in Him.
Most of us find it difficult to accept their own mistakes. They always blame someone thinking that they can get away with it. That is how they make the same mistake again and again. Untill we accept our mistakes and learn through those mistakes we would be stuck, and repeating it again and again. You may perhaps make your mistakes worth, if you are able learn through them and allow yourself to become a better person. We live to learn and through your mistakes you learn. In life we come across many questions and struggle ourselves to get the answers. Seek guidance and go deep inside. Your innerself will reveal it to you the most important answers that may help your growth.
There is another side of this, Sometimes the blame lies with those closest to us. Sometimes even family. It’s important to see people for what they are and stop blaming ourselves. Best to free ourselves from toxic people around us and their influence.
People can make promises and look you straight in the face after they have robbed you as though nothing happened.
They dont feel the need to apologise or ask forgiveness knowing full well that their intention was to cheat you in the first place. It is so sad when family can do this to you.