Strange thing is they ignore us but they want us to keep up the appearance with them, they only contacting us when they want or need something from us, we tried so many times to show and tell them that is not how family treat each other, but they seem do not care... It is heartbreaking - so better to avoid them all the time 😭 Sometimes ignore family is the best thing to do with my situation be alone and being your own best friend is the best way to go.
You find another family or other support people such as a few good friends who meet your need to belong.The other ones are missing out in making great memories. A normal function of emotion is to enhance memory in order to improve recall of experiences that have importance or relevance for our survival.
Don't worry about the family that ignores and acts like you don't matter. Love the ones who are always there for you, no matter what. this is So true. You should accept this rejection and move on.