People need to learn that their actions

People need to learn that their actions do affect other people. 
So be careful what you say and do, it’s not always just about you.

People may not always tell you how they feel about you, 
but their actions will speak for themselves. Pay attention.

“You’re going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it’s always their actions you should judge them by. It’s actions, not words, that matter.” 
~Nicholas Sparks

It's about ego damage. Narcissists can't get past their own drama and suck people around them into it like a tornado. Most of the times they don't realize that they are affecting others. They are a challenge for sure!

Don’t tell me you miss me. Tell me you’re on your way to see me. Actions speak
louder than words.