Never force anything. Give it your best shot and then let it be. If it’s meant to be, it will be.
Peace cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved by understanding. - Albert Einstein
“In the present case it is a little inaccurate to say I hate everything. I am strongly in favor of common sense, common honesty and common decency. This makes me forever ineligible to any public office of trust or profit in the Republic. But I do not repine, for I am a subject of it only by force of arms.” - H.L. Mencken